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This Is For Frustrated Dreamers

I was driving in to work this morning and I started thinking about all the days I dreaded going to work. I was so sick of it… the job, my boss, the people I worked with, the traffic… I would wake up angry every morning. I didn’t want to deal with the crap of the job, but I was forced to go. I had been homeless, I was broke, living paycheck to hopefully the next paycheck. I couldn’t take a day off for fear I would get fired. I was just frustrated. I thought I hated my life and the job.

It was so aggravating because God had placed all these dreams and hopes in my soul and mind and I had no idea how they were going to come to pass. To have a dream of being something better and living better than the way I was at that moment and to not see a way of getting there felt like death to me. I thought, “Dear God, why would you give me so much hope and not make a way?” But what I learned through prayer was, with no path in front of you and no road map… this is where true faith begins. With faith I realized that I wasn’t frustrated with my life or the job, I was frustrated because I was a person who had dreams for myself, a person who had visions for my life and I wasn’t living it. Have you ever been there, where you felt so strongly that there was more to this life than what you see in front of you?

One of the most difficult things about being a dreamer is the fear that the dream will never happen. I’m here as a living witness to tell you your dreams can come true. You can’t give up. And I am here to let you know that everything can work together for your good. The time that you are spending on that job that you think is a dead end is not. You’re being prepared just like I was. I was a shoeshine boy, I worked as a bill collector, a used car salesman, in housekeeping in a hotel, and they all were preparation for where I am now.

What do these things have to do with where I am now? I’m glad you asked. I am able to use skills that I learned. I shined shoes, so I know how to shine my shoes if I need them to look nice. Selling used cars was a great way to learn how to close a deal. Bill collecting taught me great negotiation skills. Working at that 5-star hotel taught me a lot about travel. Every experience in your life is here to teach you something.

Today, while you’re at work, don’t be frustrated. Look around you and ask God what are you there to learn and how will it be a part of your future dream. Honor that job, do the best you can at it, because God will bless you for honoring something that belongs to another. 

I hope this inspires you today. If you need a little more inspiration then watch my first sit-down interview in years with Oprah on Oprah's Next Chapter. It airs this Sunday on OWN: Oprah Winfrey Network at 9/8c. I talk a little about not giving up. I know it will move you.

Here’s a prayer for today: “God help me hold on, help me to get to what I dream of, help me to honor where I am today so that I can appreciate where I will be tomorrow. In Jesus' name.”

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  • Sharon New York

    Hello Tyler, Yes, never giving up on your dream is vital to your future and hence, success in all that you want to achieve. But many times, roadblocks create a sense of futility, even when you know that "God is in control" because he knows the past, present and future. But we are human, and becoming frustrated is part of of our development process, I'm sure, to make us work a little harder to "stay on our path" which God has made for us. I pray each day that God strengthens my mind, heart, body, soul and spirit so that He can make me an "instrument of His praise" through my work. I pray that He hears my every thought and guide my every footstep," especially when I become frustrated with the negativity that people thrust towards me with the purpose of making me stumble. I am a fighter, even when I feel so weak in spirit. You are a gift, Tyler, because you use all of your good and bad experiences to help so many others to hold on, when maybe they are at their wits end. I believe that God "gives us" certain people along our road to keep us going forward. Thank You Tyler. Love and Hugs...Sharon

  • Malissa Andrews decatur ga

    Thank u i really did need that message.

  • Jennifer J. Lewis Irvine, CA

    Thank you Tyler! I woke up to this message this morning and it was my cup of warm Joe! & I don't drink coffee, your encouragement gave me extra strength and endurance to proceed.. Just returned to California, full circle after 20yrs {Pure Destiny Move}. You stated in one of your inspirational messages about God closing every door like a maze, so that your forced to go in another direction. I'm a Radio Broadcast Major, voiceover artist, and soon to be Minister..., This is a Global endeavour! Oh! Did I mention Im a Nanny?! Lol Yes! I wear many hats! Not limited too... Yes! So much more.. I have the DNA of a leader and I will continue to PUSH forward... Hey?! Lol Is that Hyundai still available?!! Love you Tons Tyler!! Love Jennifer J! <:><

  • Lloyd

    Thank you for this email it really touched me because I am a frustrated dreamer. I know there is a better life for me but it does get frustrating. I am a veteran of the Army in which I served five years, I have a Bachelors and Masters degree in Sports Management and currently pursuing a Masters in Business Administration. I'm frustrated because I currently work in a warehouse, but that's all I have right now and I have to take care of my children along with myself. But, I do have faith in God and I know things will get better for me. Thank you again for your hard work and inspiration.

  • Dee Jamaica

    Hi Tyler! I have always appreciated and enjoyed your emails. They are so real and offers such hope and encouragement. Earlier today when I saw the subject of your email, I just knew I could not read this email at work. A few hours later I got home and while reading I had a mixture of emotions. On one hand I kept saying 'yes! that's me' and on the other hand I was teary but smiling because alot of what you described is exactly where I am at...I'm a 'Frustrated Dreamer' and have been for a while. However, today this email has reminded me that God remembers me & it has encouraged me that with God the dots will eventually connect. Thank you so much for being open and sharing this. Also, thank you SO much for being obedient to God in sharing this. May God honor you as you continue to serve Him and declare His truth. Continue to be an inspiration and be blessed.

  • Katrina Blackmon Opelika, AL

    THANK YOU so much for this inspiration... You tapped into exactly what I needed!!! Continue to allow God to spaek through you!!!

  • Paola Kansas City ,MO

    I just want to say "THANK YOU" I really needed that today. God is soo awesome what you wrote is exactly what I was just thinking almost word to word. God heard me. Bless you

  • Bonnie Durban, South Africa

    Hi there that was awesome. May God continue to use you. God bless you in your journey of life swe truelly serve an awesome, powerful and amazing God.

  • Angela

    I have to remind myself daily of what Apostle Paul wrote and that is the troubles that we see now are only temporary and will pass But it the things that we can't see will last forever. This is how I start my day and is the only way I can deal with the reality that I am not living my dream. I can relate to everything you said in your letter because that is my life at this very moment. What gives me much hope and encouragement is that my dreams come from God.... and he wouldn't give them to me if it wasn't in his plan for me to have them. I have to be honest and say that thought of having to wait a moment longer is very frustrating for me. I also have to accept that God's will and timing is perfect.... Perhaps, my waiting is God way further preparing me so I can handle the dream when it comes to past... Looking back the journey has been long , but in it I find strength to go farther.... Everyday God pulls the curtain back a little further giving me a glimpse of his promise to give me a better future. I can't see it , but I know its there.... And like you I have question why would he give me all of this and I not be able to use it..... Perhaps there is more that he is perfecting in me before I can give birth to my dream. I don't know.... It's so strange and at the same time its so wonderful the things that he's does. Much of which I don't understand , but I am learning along the way. My faith gives me hope that my dreams shall someday be my reality...... Thanks Tyler!! Your words of encouragement mean so much too me.I am tired, but I am not quitting !! We will talk soon!!!

  • Patricia

    Thanks Tyler. Sunday my Pastor said, "God is always thinking about you. And...that desire you have within you, God wants to bring it to you." Beautiful.

  • Theresa California

    Thank you for your encouraging words...

  • juanita North Carolina

    Thank you for the encouraging words Mr. Perry.