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Sometimes I will stop and write letters to all of you just to let you know what’s going on with me or even just to say thank you. Some of them are my experiences from day to day and some are about what I’m doing next or just pages from my journal. I’m sorry that I don’t write often, but because I write all of them myself, and with my schedule… well you know how it is.

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I personally don't think it's fair that someone as rich as her can steal another person's dream spot. There are tons of people in this world who just "want to act" or "just want to sing" and their dreams don't come true like that. This is Whitney Houston's daughter, this girl doesn't need to do another thing in her life. Her life has been fantastic enough from birth. Tyler you struggled to get into this business. You wasn't just given a part just because. It saddens me to see this. Tyler I normally agree with all your work and support your movies. This time I must say, I turn the other way. No longer will I support. View More: Maria Thompskin, July 20, 2012, 9:08 p.m.
Tyler Perry, WOW!!! I have no idea how you have remained calm through this but I have just read 3 pages of comments from so called "grown folks" and I am blown away how these people have let this one girl get their emotions all out of wack. Kim Kardashian is NOT God!! She is just a person just like the rest of us who I am QUITE SURE have done some nasty things is our past it just wasnt put out for the world to see....but GOD SAW AND HE KNOWS and could've allowed our business to be put on front street. But some of us get so "saved" that we forget I slept around too, I made stupid decisions, I drank, I smoked, whatever the case was ALL HAVE SINNED AND COME SHORT OF THE GLORY!! I see no reason to boycott or choose to not support anything else that Tyler does. It's ridiculous! What if God chose not to bless us because of our past and punish us instead? Think about carefully...alot if not most of us would be sitting in a padded room somewhere wearing a jacket that makes you hug yourself. But Im soooo glad God is not like MAN! He forgives but we who are "supposed to be like him" choose to judge and persecute. I am amazed by the ignorance displayed in majority of the comments I read. Some of you even resorted to using profanity?!? REALLY??! Come on, it is really not that deep. Some of you need to brush the dust off your bible and remind yourself of the forgiveness of our Savior. Remember the woman caught in the VERY ACT of adultery and by law should have been stoned and Jesus himself said " He that is without sin among you, let him cast the first stone." All of them left one by one, none of them could comdemn her and Jesus said to the woman that he also would not comdemn her and to go and sin more. If you need another example the criminal being crucified with Jesus asked him to remember him when he came into His kingdom and without hesitation or an assessment of his past Jesus said that "this day shalt thou be with me in paradise." There are sooo many others I could go on and on and on. Just understand that when God forgives that's the END of it and he doesn't bring it up again, he casts as far as the east is from the west. LET IT GO PEOPLE! Kim Kardashian has done nothing to any of you saying such harsh things about her. Why don't you pray for her (remember? the same way someone prayed for you?) that God will save and deliver her so that she can be used for His glory...because He can because HE IS GOD not any of you. You have neither a Heaven or H*** to put her in, just secure your seat in the kingdom. Because despite all our mayhem and foolishness He still loved on us! Check yourselves and get the beam out of your own eye. Sorry Tyler, I just had to go in on these folks just a little bit LOL! I still love and support you because you are letting your light shine by giving those a chance who others turn away just like someone we know named JESUS!! Peace and Blessings to you!! (praying for your strength as well) Christa ;) View More: Christa, Nov. 18, 2011, 3:46 a.m.
Sorry to hear that. God is telling you som ething. Sit down!!!!! You had some competition huh? I'm going to see my other baby daddies, brian mcknight and joe. I would like to see cede, and r kelly.... And a few others! Its going down in texas! Its always something to do! Get some rest! I paid $75 a ticket a few years ago when you said it was madeas last play. You owe me $400 or something! Now I can get the scsi for $7.50 at walmart on sale!! 7 really??? I have nothing is playing by whitney as I type last time it was donny hathaway. I'll dedicate this song to you also big country! :) I just had to throw some silly in my message. I have a ?. 1800 choke that hoe! Why? Why you make that song? I was watching the movie the other day and that song didn't sound anointed by god. The devil may have chosen it but god ain't nowhere in that's! A woman is being choked now and she's not laughing neither are her children. View More: Fee fee, Texas Sept. 18, 2012, 10:28 p.m.
Tyler, I commend you for your stand and your heart to bring healing to a community/my community that has been hit by divorce, abuse, drugs, neglect and the like! But I'm not sure I agree with you keeping Kim Kardashian in your movie. I don't beleive she married for love, nor do I think she cares about anyone other than herself. Is there hope for all? Yes. Should she be given a chance? Yes. But I also believe this might be a good opportunity for her to realize that you can't do people and marriage any kind of way. Maybe a slow d** from the top will bring her back to reality! Of course you will do what you want, but be ready if your fans don't like the decision you make! ~Tera View More: Tera, Los Angeles Nov. 17, 2011, 12:28 a.m.
GOD bless you!!!!.....You don't know how much I needed the email you sent today. I am a 38 yr old mother of 3 who in December 2010 was diagnosed with non hodgkins and hodgkins, and a low grade bone cancer. I have been cancer free for one year. No one in my family has a has been or is a homowner but I am and no one in my family has a degree but I am on my way. I wanted to break the cycle but got side tracked with health issues. I was actually thinking about quiting school because I was giving up on myself and going against GOD in a way. I was thinking why continue with school, I'm too old to start a new career is what people have been telling me and in the back of my mind I've been telling myself that the cancer may come back and kill me anyway. Receiving this email today is what I needed to push me forth. I should have realize that GOD pulled me through for a reason.............thank you so much View More: June Hamilton-Dawson, Charleston, SC July 30, 2012, 3:45 p.m.
So you made an erratic traffic maneuver, you were pulled over, you had tinted windows and made sudden movements in front of police officers…and then they let you go because you were famous? You really know how to relate to the common man. Good thing you put your two cents in about the terrible killing of a young man and made it about how you are allowed to drive poorly. View More: tbone, ny April 3, 2012, 11:57 a.m.
Just heard about your loss, although i haven't known you for long, but i know within this short time of my knowing you, i have come to like you, and i know that just like you came out of you childhood abuse and overcome it, so shall you overcome this grief that you feel with the help of God, i feel your pain and the loneliness you feel right now, wish i could help you come out of it but i am far away and all i can do is pray and wish you well. View More: jane, pau Dec. 7, 2011, 8:46 a.m.

Guard Your Heart and Mind

If you can get this, this will change your life… I was out taking my morning run. I love how still it is when I’m running. I can hear clearly and really commune with God. I wanted to share this with you. It’s a lesson I had to learn.

One of the keys to success is to be able to guard your heart. Now, usually when someone says guard your heart they are talking about keeping yourself from heartbreak. Although that is important (as long as you don’t go overboard... but that’s another conversation) that isn’t what I’m talking about. When we are born into this world we enter with such a pure heart but as we grow older situations, circumstances and people tend to make us change. Now I know it is nearly impossible to keep a childlike innocence in our hearts all of our lives, especially after people have betrayed, lied, mistreated and downright been the devil. Trust me when I tell you, I have seen it all. I have been there big time. If you’re like me you’ve been there too. But if this is your situation I want you to know two very important things about those moments of heartbreak. Number one, learn the lesson in it. See how it will work together for your good, because it will. Once you do, it’s easier to forgive and move on. Secondly, and this is just as important as the first one, you must not let that person or people change your heart. What do I mean by that? Well, if you are a giver and someone you have given to misuses your gift, don’t stop giving… just give to someone else. If you are a person that loves people and someone you love hates you, don’t stop loving… love someone else. Eventually, you will find people who appreciate your kindness and your love. Remember this, lots of people have been conditioned to not be able to accept purity of heart. They can’t take it in. Most times it’s not even their fault. It’s just what has happened to them on their journey in life. But don’t let them turn you into one of them. There will be a lot of people in your life who will not appreciate your pureness of heart. If they hurt you don’t stop being you… just be you with someone else.

Why is this so important? Because God blesses you according to what is in your heart. If you are being kind, giving, loving and sharing because it is in your heart and you are not looking for anything in return, then that is a heart that God wants to bless. If you change who you are because you’ve been hurt, then you’ve changed the thing that God wants to bless you according to, and that is your heart. The people who hurt you are not worth that. You can lose everything that you have, but don’t let anybody change your heart.

Tyler

by Tyler Perry on September 07, 2012.

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Sheneith Hawkins Dallas,Tx. 1 month, 3 weeks ago

:-) Don't stop giving!... Don't stop loving!... If they hurt you Don't stop being you... Just be you with someone else. Don't let anyone change your heart! :-) Thanks for my heart, too! LoL! :P LoL... LoL... Only you! Only you! LoL... :-) Well, today your New Movie, Temptation came out in theaters. Lol! The thing is this: How did I go see it yesterday/last night then?! Lol!! Another 1st if I can remember correctly. And I'm also wondering just how your day is going? Well, I must cut my nephew's hair. Lol!! You know, I be busy talking to you & I be making them wait. Or I just be reading my thoughts. I just used your site as my Notebook Tyler. Lol!! I been telling you for the longest I hope you didn't mind. And I don't mean any harm. But I'm sure glad its here. :-) Lol... And if you sit up there & keep allowing other ppl to read my stuff. Like I don't know or something. I was born just not yesterday. Lol!!! :-) Guess who my Coach is? Madea! It's not you Tyler! Lol!!! Madea talking about: come over here & let Tyler seduce you. Lol!! Anyway, Alright... I'll get back with you. Oh, you alright know, I live all over the house & the bed. Lol!!! OMG! Who is this Girl/Woman here? If you wanna know you must find out for yourself. Ok, thank you. Love you, you Root! :o !!!! #Blessed #IAm! :-) #Blessed #WeAre #Blessed #YouAre. #LoveNeverFails :-)
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Hattie Williams 3232 w Madison apt 201 Chicago ill,60624 1 month, 4 weeks ago

Thank you mr.perry I get it not never understood .... But now I do again thank you I love every move & play that you come out with...keep doing what you are doing and I pray to GOD that he keep on blessing you
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Sheneith Hawkins Dallas,Tx. 2 months, 1 week ago

I love you, Baby! Song: "Here & Now" LoL!!!! LIKE OMG JESUS!!! :-) Smile. When u smile...when u laugh I laugh too.... :-)
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Sheneith Hawkins Dallas,Tx. 2 months, 1 week ago

And in my eyes, their is no one in this whole wide world that even come close to comparing you with. I can only imagine. LoL lol :-). Your love shines thru the darkest nights. It leaps over & thru walls. Your touch is like heaven. I ain't gonna even mention the sound of your laughter & your smile (my cheeks). It's like ...Mmmm good the real thang! LoL!!! :o :-) LoL!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lol lol lol... Mr I'm So Serious Tyler Perry, the Love of my life. :P
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Sheneith Hawkins Dallas,Tx. 2 months, 1 week ago

Who is Tyler Perry in ' one word'? Tyler Perry is "EFFECTIVENESS"! :-) ...LoL... :-) I love you, too!
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Sheneith Hawkins Dallas,Tx. 2 months, 1 week ago

It's no time soon that I'm asking to have grand children. I'm in no rush at this time. I actually feel the need to want to get out & enjoy. I wanna do that with you Tyler. Would u like to do that together? Would u like & care to do that together for the rest of our lives? :-) I can't see us doing it with anyone other than yourself. It was in 2005, when I first laid eyes on you & heard your voice. What year are we in now T? Lol! :-) Even within that time lots of things have happen. Most importantly, :-) I heard this beautiful, wisdom, handsome, greatest smile I've seen since my own father. This guys who is Tyler Perry. He prayers, he's like no other. It's you & I wouldn't mind sharing our lives with you Tyler. Only God could have done such thing/things. Only the Father! Cause I still love you. And I believe I love you even more. Will you love me/us as only I believe that you can/will? It's a joy & a happiness. :-) ...LoL... :-) Kiss & Hug. I'll put forth my best effort to love you back. And care for you & respect you & love you & cherish you & bless you & enjoy you & embrace you. And forgive me. I love you, too Tyler! LOL :-)
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Sheneith Hawkins Dallas,Tx. 2 months, 1 week ago

Good Morning Tyler, question: When u been away com Aldo, Peter, Paul & Mary for a length of time. How do our babies greet you? :-) And how do u greet each of them? Which one runs to you first? Or do they each do? What do yall do with each other when seeing each other? I ask these question with the thought in mind - you said, "they love you unconditionally." Well, with me having two sons & for all these years of not really being apart besides the holidays & summers at Paulette's house. And I would show up there cause I missed them so much. :-) Here lately, we haven't been apart like talking about it. And they both are getting up there in age. And have learned to do things on their own. Well, I'm more accepting of them doing it for themselves now. Wow! It's been 18 yrs. I'll be 40 this May. I won't say, 40 is old because I wanna live & enjoy getting older. Like meeting my/our daughter in laws & taking time with my grand kids & hopefully the first one will be a baby girl. :-) These are the type of things I prayed for during some really tough times. Stuff like this. LoL!!! :-)
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Sheneith Hawkins Dallas,Tx. 2 months, 1 week ago

I enjoy you TP! :-) And to have you know me & enjoy me, & love me is 1 of the best 3 prizes in the whole wide world. Tyler, Tai, & D'Andre. :-) ...LoL... :-) Kiss & Hug
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Sheneith Hawkins Dallas,Tx. 2 months, 1 week ago

:-) Heart! LoL! :-)
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Sheneith Hawkins Dallas,Tx. 2 months, 2 weeks ago

Don't let anyone change your heart! Tyler, do u know I miss these post like this one from you?! You been on your move & all with your new movie #Temptation; which has been great & important information u have shared with us. How much of it, is your personal Outlook or thoughts? I wonder. Hmmmm. Tyler, are you going thru a transformation at this time? Or have u just recently come out of one? I don't know what u have been thru these last 20+ yrs in business & having to deal with ppl & or etc. However, I appreciate you! :-) And I'm so glad u are around. I don't understand why you don't talk thru just yourself though. I don't understand that. :-) Do know I have given it some thought though. Perhaps, we'll get time to discuss your facial expression & your hand gestures. LOL! I be just smh! Not in a bad way. Just I be wanting to know what's up with you! LOL! Maybe its because I been around just Tai & D'Andre so long. I would be just listening to them over all these years. D'Andre will be the one who does make noise. Tai doesn't. But it still don't mean he ain't the one in there getting D'Andre started. Tai is 18 this year & D'Andre still have many more to go being he is 12! LOL!! Lord Jesus! Would u like to have Tai & D'Andre work for you? They will. You'll just have to show them how it goes. :-) Cause I'm not working for you!! Lol... Lol.. LoL!!!!! I'm just following your butt. LOL! You are very interesting T! I'm really enjoying myself. Which it has taken up a lot of my time. LOL!! That is too funny!!! This is surely a dream come true. LOL!! What u be thinking? Do I be getting on your nerves sometime? I hope not! The truth of the matter is my sons get on my nerves but that doesn't change the fact that I love them. :-) This what I wanna know about you Tyler - are you mean or are you nice? What u say, "a little of both!" I'll let u tell/show me. I wanna know! I guess u say, "this girl wanna know everything!" LOL!!! That I do! :o !!!!! LOL... :-) ...LoL... :-)
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Yolonda Paterson,NJ 3 months, 1 week ago

Thank you for your heart. I have experienced two heart blows and I stopped to think what brought these experiences to me? I am learning to open my heart after years of hurt. Maybe these experiences are testing the hinges on the door. Your insight helps me to understand the scripture in Proverbs and how to move forward. Thank you Yolonda
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Sheneith Hawkins Dallas,Tx. 3 months, 1 week ago

EVENTUALLY
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