True Story!
A few years ago I was getting these really insane water bills. I mean HIGH! So I decided to dig some wells in my yard to have water for my landscape. I live alone, so I know it had to be from watering the grass. So I hired a company to come out and dig these wells. The foreman and I walked all around my yard and as we were walking he was putting down flags. I asked what the flags were for. He said, "The flags represent good places to dig for water." I asked, "Why do you have so many flags?" He said, "I'm not sure if any of these places will produce water." I said, "Hold up, you mean if you dig all these spots and don't hit water I still have to pay you?" He said, "Yes, that's how it goes." I said, "Ok, fine." Needless to say, he dug three wells and never hit water. I said, "Just stop."
I got a few more extreme water bills and called him back. He said, "Are you sure?" I said, "Yes, keep drilling until you hit water." The next well he dug he was down 500 feet and still didn't hit any water. He asked if I wanted him to stop. I said, "Go deeper." He dug down another 200 feet and still nothing. I said, "Go deeper." He drilled another 200 feet and he hit rock. I said, "Blast it, cut it, do whatever you have to do but keep digging." After fighting the rock and breaking his drill and getting a new one we got a little deeper. He said, "We are at 1,200 feet, why do you want me to keep going?" I said, "Cause I'm tired of these water bills and I'm going to do something about it." He said, "But this is really deep." I asked him if he had hit water yet. He said "no," so I told him to go deeper. "But you don't understand," he said. "We don't usually drill this deep, this is going to be expensive." I told him that, "Sometimes you have to go deeper to get what you are after, no matter what the cost." He started the machine and went down another four inches and hit a river of water. Just a few inches separated me from getting my breakthrough. That was five years ago and that well has never run dry.
In 2013 I want you to apply that to your life in all ways. Sometimes you will spend time on a thing and it will produce no water. Don't be afraid to move on to another spot. YOU CAN'T HAVE FEAR. I don't care how much time you put into it. If the well is dry MOVE ON! Nothing lives where there is no living water. Be it a relationship, a job, a business, don't be afraid to move to another spot.
Now, on the other hand, if you are digging your well and you are sure that it is not only where you want to be but where God wants you to be, then keep digging in that same spot. Don't stop digging until you hit a river of blessings. Don't stop praying until you live in the change you've been waiting for. Don't stop pushing until you deliver your breakthrough. Yes, it will get difficult. Yes, you may hit rock. Yes, there will be a cost. But when you get to what God is trying to get you to, YOU WILL RECOVER IT ALL! One of my favorite scriptures says that. "PURSUE AND YOU SHALL RECOVER IT ALL!"
Some people give up when they are only inches away!!
Happy New Year.
DDDDIIGGGGGG! People DIG!!!
Comments (page 12)
john scott new york
I agree 100% tp and I'm living proof of that I have an arm and leg of felonies but I've never let them stop me from the many times I felt like going back to what was comfortable too, what I knew the streets I've been blessed and I have a birthday coming soon and nothing would be more of a blessing than to work for you as I gain maturity, I would also like to add that the lady who helped you twenty yrs ago thats a great play/movie for us to help our people gain back some sense of pride, dignity and humbleness I 2oupd love to write with and for you on any occasion!
ReplyLatoya Sanders Tuscaloosa AL
Thanks, that's great advice =)
ReplySheneith Hawkins Dallas,Tx.
...heartbeat!
ReplySheneith Hawkins Dallas,Tx.
Tyler, something is missing, & where did it go?! Okay! When that happens, I be like, maybe I shouldn't say that. I'm so ready to talk. I want my phone call!? I really do & I'm not playing at all. I just want us to hold the phone to our ears and listen. :-) :o !!!!. Like, are u serious? Like, yes, I am! What u wanna talk about, T? How was your day? As long as, you're in my day I'm happy. I can feel my heartbeat. Would u like to know something about me, T? The Lord knows I'm so ready! I'm ready now! I'm ready now! We, both gotta be some really special people. I tell u that. We are special! :-) What are you doing? I'm waiting & waiting! How much longer do we have to wait? Are u Tyler, waiting for me to be silent!? I'm starting to see my posts looking really girly, right about now. Do u know when a female have feelings toward a man she becomes weak? Am I suppose to be enjoying this part, too? Tyler, I don't wanna think about it. It what? Me being so vulnerable & this longing. Do u not realize I wish to see you by now! I wanna be held by you! I'm going to bed. Have a good night. Tty soon! Let's just see what Friday have in stored for us. If I wake up in the middle of the night. I'll come & say Hi, at least. :-)
ReplySharon New York
Hello Tyler, I love your message regarding never giving up, especially on ourselves. This can be a daunting task at times, especially when life keeps throwing rotten tomates at you. But, with faith, hope and love, and especially with God's help and guidance, we can all make it through. Yes, as you said, "Dig!" and keep striving for the best. May God continue to bless you. Love and Hugs
ReplySheneith Hawkins Dallas,Tx.
:-) ...LoL... :-) LoL!!!!! How are you? Are you thinking about me? You already know, BY NOW, I'm most definitely thinking on/about you, TP! :-) Is it strange or are you happy? You wanna know why I kept asking you T, do u want something/body for just yourself? I was needing to know could u & would u like the attention that I, personally was/is looking to give out. I dream of myself being my man's best. Not that I'm soft (soft to him of course), I'm myself. That's what I liked so much in Madea(even though, I knew it was you, all the time). That amazed me that you could put up with someone like myself. I have this really really strong personality. I, personally hadn't met anyone who could do that. Meaning a guy & like it! LOL! :-) I can't be with nobody but you. Is that bad? :-) Or just maybe, no one has ever taken the time to know me to love me. My sons love me. That's been great! So, I just stopped altogether with even wasting my time. Is that too much information for you to handle? If you can put up with Madea, then you can love me, Tyler. LoL... OMG!! LoL... I just like being myself. What's wrong with that? Nothing! Nothing at all! It's actually wonderful!!! :-) LoL... Do u know what guys say about Louisiana women? The first thing comes out their mouth is, "y'all Louisiana women crazy, & or every female I have met from Louisiana been crazy!" You tell that dude, no, we're not crazy we just don't take no s**** We nice, loving & caring but don't dare try us! Then, you just might think we are crazy. Tyler, were u aware that guys say that about females from Louisiana? Do u think I'm sweet, loving, caring, considered of others, sugar & spice & all that's nice? What can you tell me? This is what u call drilling & hitting a rock, & blasting it, etc... Here I am! What u gonna do with me. Now, that I'm here? I wanna know! I wanna hear you say it & say it so, I can hear you! I'm listening for you, to you. :-) I'll be back soon!!!!!!! :-) I love you! :-) ...LoL... :-)
ReplySheneith Hawkins Dallas,Tx.
And here I am! :-)
ReplySheneith Hawkins Dallas,Tx.
Good Morning TP, how was your night? Did u sleep well? :-) What do you have to say? If u wanna know how I plan on making love last forever. All I can say to you would be, to keep loving you. Cause I believe in you & I (us). Do I know all the details? No, I do not. I know who I want & what I want. You said when we face our fear we learn it was nothing to be afraid of. You were right. All this time, I had no reason to be so afraid. I know this now. I'm still going cry on your shirt when I finally get to hold you. That hasn't change. You been part of the reason how I can sit here & not have eyes for anyone else. Cause the man I been liking on I didn't even know how to approach. I really didn't feel like I was suppose to approach him. I been wanting him to approach me. But its all good. I'm out here now! So, I might as well keep on going. And I'm not mad! I'm happy! :-) So, what we going to do today T? I never wanna let you go T. FYI! :-) OK, gotta go for now. I'll be back & you already know it!!!! ...LoL... :-) I love you.
ReplySheneith Hawkins Dallas,Tx.
And of course, over these years, I done watched u, heard u, agree & disagree with you. All that! But one things been for certain. I have never wanted anyone to have you. As if u was suppose to knock on my door & just know who I was or something. :-) LoL... LoL... I can't explain it. What I can say is, I been liking u Dude. I just considered myself perfect for you! And yet in still, I had been afraid to dare approach u. All this time, when I would say, "Save the best for last!" That was referring to you & I! So, when I heard u where there on NYEve, I could not allow another moment/opportunity to pass. While T sitting there looking all serious & stuff. LoL... Could u have even imagine that someone, meaning myself was crazy about you? That's all you need to know. LoL... :-) And that's why I be saying, "Don't come to me like that." But I can say, I still have enjoyed every minute. Just being able to finally chat & communion with you have been so great & wonderful. You're such an outstanding person. And I just love u. And if it means I've made a fool of myself. I'll say, its been worth it all. Because I see you as worthy. :-) Have a good night T! And thank you so so so much. I love you! :-)
ReplySheneith Hawkins Dallas,Tx.
What's on your mind tonight? I'm feeling pretty free, right about now. Let me share this with you. When I think of you & TPS, I think of TPS as your baby/children/kids. Not the people! What I mean by that is, me, being a mother. Which means I have two sons. If something comes up, guess who they call? Me! And I do what I do. Same for you, just on a different level. Sometimes when it was hard on me. I would think about you! Having to be responsible for multiple people & multiple families. And I don't see that as small. Not at all! Actually its perhaps, a huge responsibility. Like mother hasn't always been as easy as it is now. I've cried a many of years. Days wouldn't have been enough. So, that's why I chose to use years instead. I would look at u & see my sons. And what they could become in their future. Through it all. I really don't like the things that u have had to encounter & endure. But I'm so glad u survived & that you are alive & well. Wise, too! Open! Loving & Caring! And such a great listener. And you are fun. That's really amazing, too, T! Please believe, I be having some smart stuff to say. But the truth of the matter is, if any would have scooped you up. I really would be hurt. Like u can't even imagine. There ain't need for me to lie about it. I used to be sitting back acting as if God was just gonna bring u directly to me. Each time I saw u with somebody my heart was like OH!!!! :-) LoL... Over these past 3-4yrs, when getting your emails, I would be acting like it was a check or something. Just wanting to hear what u had to say. I been sweet on you T, for 8yrs. Thinking you are the bomb. :-) ...LoL... :-) That's funny isn't it?! :o !!!!
ReplySheneith Hawkins Dallas,Tx.
LoL... :-) Now, I come over here to have a semi-private conversation. Just between the two of us, T!
ReplySheneith Hawkins Dallas,Tx.
FYI, too! And when Jesus was tempted, he was only being tempted by what was ALREADY His in the first place. I'll leave u with that. :-) I love you, T!
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