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Why Did I Put All My Money Into This?

Why did I put all my money into this? Is this going to work? God, do you hear me? Where are the people? I’m so scared. How will I pay these people? Why did I do this? I can’t pay my rent, they are going to repossess my car…

The year was 1992, July 8th-12th. All these questions were crowding my mind.  I was a 22-year old wannabe... but what I wanted to be I didn’t know. All I knew was that I had written this play about adult survivors of child abuse and I wanted the world to see it. I was so sure that it was going to work that I put my own money into the show.

I had worked as a used car salesman and a bill collector and saved my income tax check and my bonuses. I took that money and hired a cast and built a set and rented a very small theater in Atlanta called the 14th Street Playhouse. I had done all the math in my head: I was going to perform 6 shows, 200 people a show, for a total of 1,200 people. The tickets were $12 and I was going to make $14,000 and be rich… LOL. I was going to give my tithe to the church, give my mother some money, pay my rent (that was two months behind), get my car payment caught up and live happily ever after. I knew as sure as I am sitting here that it was all going to be all right. I had prayed that thang out, as they say in the Baptist church… LOL. Looking back on it now I can laugh, but back then it wasn’t so funny. What I quickly realized is that prayer alone will not always get the results you want. As much work as I did, I didn’t do enough to promote the show. More work was needed to go along with my faith.

I was expecting 1,200 people but only 30 showed up. I was devastated. I thought my dreams were dead. Based off this one thing I thought my life was over. Based on this one failure (what I thought was a failure but it clearly wasn’t), I thought that the rest of my life would be ruined. Needless to say, looking back on it, it was all a part of God’s plan and amazing design for my life. And God has a plan for all of our lives.

Today I celebrate my 20th anniversary in show business. It’s been an amazing journey, one that I will detail in my autobiography one day. You would be surprised, inspired, angry and blown away with what I’ve endured to be here, but until then I’d like to share a little inspiration with you. So many times we think that because one thing didn’t go as planned we should give up on it. So many people leave their dreams dying on the floor, gasping for air because it didn’t work out the first time. Be it marriage, business, children, faith, whatever your dream is, you can't give up because it didn’t go as planned. If I had walked away because it didn’t work you wouldn’t be reading this. I had to keep moving. Yes, there were setbacks. Yes, it was difficult, but I got to see my dreams come to pass because I never stopped moving forward, I never stopped praying and most of all I never stopped believing. DON’T STOP BELIEVING!!!! PLEASE DON’T STOP BELIEVING!!! Say this to yourself out loud right now: “DON’T STOP BELIEVING”, and repeat it to yourself whenever you doubt that you can make it.

What you must understand is that everything, all of it, the good the bad and the ugly, it all works together for your good. If you love the Lord you are called according to His purpose. What’s His purpose for you? If you’re not sure, seek it and all your dreams will come true.

To all my dreamers, to all the people who have invested in themselves, to all the people who have the same questions that I did, hear me when I say this: YOU CAN DO IT!!


God Bless you, in Jesus' name, AMEN!


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  • Margriet Winklaar Curacao

    Tyler first of all Congratulations. Like always you menage to inspire me. Thanks I really needed that. Keep going on and Never stop being You ! Keep being Blessed. I hope you are able to stop for a little while today en really celebrate and Enjoy.

    • Mmami South Africa #1707334

      Those who are called are seen by their actions,they don't give up.They know and understand their power which is from the M***** himself.A Man of God knows how to stand up and walk again. I celebrate with you and may he keep on blessing you. You are loved in SA and I have personarly learned a lot from you. Thank you Mr Perry

  • De Andre' Maryland, USA

    Congratulations on Celebrating 20 Years in the Entertainment Industry! I am so glad that you posted this message today. It was Very Needed for me, RIGHT NOW. Telling your story of set backs and truimphs, is inspiring. "I Believe In Me and I Can Do This!", I am holding on to that one. Continued Blessings and Success!

  • Carla M Sims

    Thanks Tyler! I really need that. I CAN DO IT!

  • Gillian Ashton United States

    AMEN Tyler Perry AMEN:) May the good Lord continue to use you...we are definitely blessed by your work and we look forward to many more years filled with laughter, tears and revelations of ourselves thru your movies and plays.

  • Sheneith Hawkins Dallas,Tx.

    :-) So much LOVE! :-)

  • Kendra Langston Bridgeport, CT

    Hi Tyler, Those inspiring roles touched me to tears. I have been contemplating giving up on my dream of being a nurse because doors keep getting closed in my face but it is something I really want. I wanted to believe all the negative was a sign but I move forward knowing it is my destiny to Pursue, Overtake, & Recover my dream. I needed that today. Thank you

  • Danita Northern, NJ

    Congratulations and thanks for the encouraging words. Peace and blessings to you.

  • LTyler Bowie, MD

    Tyler, Congratulations on 20 years. You have blessed so many with your plays, movies and words of inspirations. Keep doing what you're doing. Thank you for sharing so much of yourself with us. May God bless you and yours always.

  • Tammy Jones

    Keep holding on to God and His purpose for you ^_^

  • Stephanie McDonald Philly, Pa

    I was first introduced to a Tyler Perry play by a friend who wanted to keep me entertained while I was home recooperating from surgery. I've been on the Tyler Perry ride ever since. Congratulations on reaching this milestone. Much love and God bless.

  • Beth Donner Cary, NC

    Hi Tyler! Obviously you don't know me, but I wanted to let you know that I have prayed for you today, as I have done many times before. I thank God for saving you! I think you are Great, Wonderful and Perfect in every way & just wanted you to know how much I Love You ! PS- One of my dreams is that I get to meet you one day! : )

  • Tammy Jones Kansas City, Missouri

    Congratulations on your 20th year!!! You have touched and encouraged a lot of peoples lives by your plays and movies...I love your work....keep holding on to God and His purpose for you! ^_^ God bless you!!

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