This is what I dream of & believe for myself. I see myself happily married to the man that's first a friend of mines. Who loves & care for me & my sons. The person I can be myself around & with. We both enjoys each others company, conversation, time, mind, thoughts, presence, touch, etc. We're able to speak to each other about our past without it being any problem. I wouldn't want to be with a man where he & I can't stand one another. Or he & I faking to put on a show for others. I want he & I to be able to be happy whether anybody else knows why or not! Better yet, I would like for others to look at he & I and say to themselves, I really would want someone special in my life like that, as well. :-) lol... I want the type of relationship that nothing can come between he & I. And for sure, can't nobody come & tell either one of us anything about the other. That's a no-no! This type of relationship isn't something u can have with just any somebody! I must have love, respect, honor, trust, commitment, faith & God/Jesus/The Holy Spirit, 1st of all! And FUN, FUN, FUN! Yes! LOL... Someone to which we can just stare into each others eyes, hold hands, talk without saying a word. And feel each others heartbeat. :-) We're comfortable with laying in each others arms. And I do not need all that Reality TV stuff. All I care about is the two of us being happy with one another. Loving one another, growing together with one another, happy to see one another. And when we must be apart from each other we're secure enough with one another that we both can't wait just to be back into each others presence, space, arms. :P lol... We gonna live off l-o-v-e. Lol... Lol... I wonder what kinda stuff we gonna be talking about. Hmmm.... Family, life, the future, the past, the present -all of it, some of everything! Laughing, talking, making faces, talking noise in love. :P And he gonna cook for me. I'm gonna cook for him too. Love & Happiness. And after about 20yrs we gonna start looking like we sister & brother. Have u seen any couples photos where they start to look as if they are related after so long? Lol... Do u believe in two becoming one? Don't fear
T, you know the younger child comes along. And it SEEMS as if they get away with more. But what it is, is after a parent or parents have raised the bigger one or once. A parent learn how to chill out, calm down, not freak out SO MUCH. Whereas the older sibling(s) sometimes believe that that child is favored more than theirself. What children don't know is being a mother isn't a easy job. There are so many levels you go thru, so many curves & turns; tears & pain that.... That you can't explain. You just DO IT! Sometimes others might not understand it & for the most part u, yourself don't even understand. But somehow or another you all make it. :-) And I will change the subject & say this: the problem that this world is facing is NOT a gun problem!!! It's a FAMILY PROBLEM!!!! Right now they wanna point the blame to guns. That's not it, at all. It's a family issue. Whether they know it or not or whether ANY1 choose to admit it OR NOT. Oh, they can claim mental problem if they want to. That's a LIE! It's A FAMILY PROBLEM!!!! Ttyl...
Child... LOL.. No, seriously, Soooo, this morning Tai drove up to his school safely. I just don't understand why they must pay $250 for a Driver's Ed Course & they can't drive the Instructor around until after they have completed the course, got papers signed from school, go to DMV & pass test, get driver's permit & then complete so many hours of driving w/ parent, etc before they get to drive the Instructor around for so how many hours. That's crazy to me! They just getting peoples money. Anyway, Tai did well. I'm just not cut out for all that. Why? For one, I'm his parent. I'm serious. I don't play. And I mean business. But this child has to have the experience to do so. And the good part is, when he has it all down packed, he & I will know it. When I did learn to drive. It sure wasn't with my mom. The times she took me to practice it was nerve racking. After that I just drove other ppl cars around town til I got my own. I was 15 or 16 yrs old. We didn't live in Dallas neither. You will drive for yourself & others here in Dallas,Tx everytime u get behind a wheel. Bless him heart. :-) The other good part is, I'm now gonna have myself a driver! Lol... My mom sure did! Dee that dude would drive mom to store after store after store on Saturdays just to be driving. And she did a lot of window shopping. He didn't care; just as long as he was driving all while she was shopping inside the mall. He knew she would be hours in there. Lol... He drive Concrete Trucks right now. That's James! As for Tai, I believe he will do well. Do u recall me saying to you, as mothers we too make mistakes? Mostly, because we want the best for our children. And especially being the only parent they must call on. As we have made it thru all these years. I/we must trust that He'll see us thru just fine even now. Eph.3:20 I'll be sure to let u know when I get passed my nervousness. And let's just hope none of it rub off on him(Tai). What I can say, is I'm not depressed, anger, hurt, sad or mad about being the only parent to my two sons, that's for sure, sure!!! :o !!! And if He kept us when I couldn't even imagine it to be real. SURELY, He continue to be Faithful & Reliable & a Comforter. I trust! :-)
:-) My niece & I had such a wonderful fulfilling visit on today. Crystal is 28 yrs old, she'll be 29 this coming March. Her & D'Andre b-days are the 3th & 4th of March. I learned something I didn't know about us- my family on today. I thought it was just me, but I'm learning that its also apart of my family & us being raised up the way we were. In our household, with my father & mother. Lol... I'll tell u later. Hint: we stay to ourselves. Not all of us but for the most part. I haven't talked to little Mrs Paulette in a minute. It's all good! Mom is back from Houston now. Kay is now about to be a stay-at-home mom to baby Chloe. :-) What u got planned for This Christmas, T? And or this New Year? Well, my eyes are pretty much tired. So, I'm gonna get ready for bed. I'll talk with... Have a good night. And Merry Christmas to you & yours... I love you! :-)
:-) HI TP!!!!!!! LoL... What are you doing today? :-) Tai & I just got back from DMV. He has gotten his driver's permit. LOL. Yes, it was a school day. However, this child has been waiting & waiting. And I wanted him to at least take his test so he could have it before the New Year comes in. And he did it! LOL. :-) I'm so excited for him. Even though, I didn't let him drive me home on the freeway. Lol... I'm gonna allow him to drive to school each morning w/ me in the car, to see how that goes. And from there only God knows! I know he is over excited, himself. He's not the one to show all his emotions like that. But when D'Andre came in, I told him & he was super excited. Lol... As if, Tai was gonna take him somewhere with him. :-) That's just the way D'Andre is. He shows emotions & etc. Tai he is just laid back, cool calm & collected. My two sons are opposite of each other. Oh, Crystal(my niece) just walked in. She's Kay's sister. I'll get back with u soon. Ttyl. :-) hugs & kisses!
Ok Tyler, For some reason I seem to be watching your messages in some particular order. I just watched "How to be successful". I am hearing you loud and clear. Hopefully God will bless my efforts and we will do some good together. Bye for now. Best wishes to you.
Tyler, I just made a posting previous to this one and when I was finished I went on to watch you video about "an appointed time for everything". I guess I should have realized that many many people want you to make them a star or make a movie that they believe will just turn their life around. This is not my intention, and if I do not hear from Tyler Perry Studios, I understand. On the other hand, maybe it was meant for me to write the previous post first before watching "an appointed time for everything". No matter what happens, it's all good at this point. Thanks
Tyler, I don't know what to say here. I only know that I find you to be very inspirational. I also want to say that I think that you and your work are just what we as a people and a country need. Now I am not trying to blow your skirt up or butter you up with flattery because I need something from you. What I am trying to say, and I hope it comes out the right way, is this. I believe in the things that you say and I am glad to see someone out there saying the things you say regarding God, love, caring and sharing. It is my goal to help others by creating revenue streams from effort and work. Not from asking for donations from the masses or people that are more fortunate than most. I believe that I can do this by having "The Brody Wright Story" become a Tyler Perry product. I think that a movie named "What could have been" (The Brody Wright Story) should be told in the Tyler Perry fashion. It is a wholesome story with excitement, inspiration, sorrow and joy. It is a story that is Christian in nature and music is very important to the production. The proceeds, I believe, will help support those things that you like to do for others and provide me with the ability to do the same. Maybe on a smaller scale, but then, it is all relative since no scale has been set. Please contact me if I have peaked your interest at all. I am at your immediate service. ps. I am also sending mail via the U.S. Post office about this plan of mine. God bless Tyler and thanks for inspiring me enough to send you this message. Merry Christmas
Tyler, thanks for always being positive. I never had that from my family, execpt my grandmother who I miss sooooo much. Love ya, keep being you and doing what you do.
Thank you! :-)
I have been in church for over 30 years. I've had to be transformed from many religious mindsets. I have been blessed to hear the nuggets from the Word of God in these snippets of wisdom. They are simple, but so profound. They are impacting my life and I feel God's love coming from this vessel. Thank you and God bless you!
I want you to be happy and well....God bless you!! Merry Christmas!! You deserve it!!