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  • Sherria NYC #2111924 » Posted in: My online family

    Thanks so much Tyler! Just what I needed to hear. Well said.

  • My Love.. #2111923 » Posted in: My online family

    Sending yet a kiss on the forehead.

  • marianne long island ny #2111922 » Posted in: My online family

    Tyler Perry when I was first introduced to your movies I thought you were funny once I understoodthat you were telling a story about how people deal with sadness and with the struggle of day-to-day life it really made me understand things and see things in such a better light I just read your recent story about the grass and the tree it definitely hit me it made me understand things like I never understood them before for years I have struggled to form a relationship with my mother we used to be close when I was younger but for some reason ever since I was maybe 10 or 12 her and I have bumped heads I've tried countless ways to fix it I have tried to take her out to dinner to bond with her to cook dinners with her to enjoy the things that she enjoys and no matter what I do it backfires after reading the story of come to the realization that I shouldn't expect people to give me what I want even if it's the love and attention that I would like to get from my mother as you said some people just aren't built that way and some people can't give you what you want or what you need because they either don't know how to or they can't i know this story wasn't directly for me but it definitely opened up my eyes and made me see people for who they are and I thank you for that

  • Why You Mad? Oh, you know why I'm mad. #2111919 » Posted in: My online family

    :-) I read your message and I will need for you to clarify some things for me. I hope you can carve some time out of your busy schedule and come to Oklahoma to clarify some things. I will walk you all over the beautiful grounds of the Pheasant and we will dig deep into this thing . :-) Goodnight, Tyler!

  • Janice Rock Island, IL. #2111918 » Posted in: My online family

    I disagree with you, first grass is soft to walk on and most times pretty to look at and it holds food for Gods creatures and homes for them. A tree also is nice to look at, but it provides shade from the sun/heat, when you see them you know what they are and what they can do for you. People however all came from Adam and Eve and their generations so you think the core of them must be somewhat Godly or good. Some people follow God's teachings and if they also follow them then you likely can become friends, other times you may fall in love with this person before you find out that they are a child of Satan. Some people pretend to be what they think you want. Unlike the grass and tree that you can see what they are, you can't always see that a man married you to get to your children , are family members that you trust harm your kids or buy a big life ins policy and kill you and this has happened. Good or bad everyone you know leaves a life print on you, if it's bad you find it hard to trust people.

  • I Love You Tyler. .. #2111917 » Posted in: My online family

    And I am so glad you found your words I am proud of you.

    • Positive reinforcement for negative. . #2111920

      Behavior - A sense of endowment. . Guilt - control or lack there of.. due to fear of change. . Change in intentions.. Why we do what you do..

  • T. D. Barrett Il #2111914 » Posted in: My online family

    That letter brought me to tears. My mom is an addict, I was a fosterchild, all I wanted was to have a relationship with her, but my mom talk so badly to me, that its so hard to keep trying. Im more hurt about how she treats me. I want her to love me like sshe likes me, cares for me, or wants to see me do good, however, I dont think that will ever be my reality. So let the grass be the grass, and God bless me with more trees.

  • Leanne Chicago #2111913 » Posted in: My online family

    Oh Man!, did you hit straight up my alley. I Have six grown Children, not 1 not 2 but six. This past Mother's Day I expected so much more in thoughtfulness seeing as how, In April I had congestive heart failure. I didn't expect much in gifts, I expected to spend time with, see them. This memorial day, I expected to see them even made plans with a couple of them, I sat in my back yard and barbequed, alone, ate and drank alone. I complained to myself for the next few days. Then I said enough!I told God i'm done with looking for them to be the joy in my days, after all they are not babies. They have children of their own. Every time I wanted to complain, I talked to God and acknowledged him. When 1 day, some of the things, I thought I needed them to fulfill God began to fulfill. My energy level went up, normally I wouldn't even be able to type this comment from feeling totally exhausted. Not today, there is a confidence and a Joy that is unexplainable. I feel like when I stopped expecting others to do what only God could do, he began to meet my needs. Love you Mr. Perry!

    • This breaks my heart #2111921

      Because I have a big family like yours. We all go out of our way yo help my mother, buy her gifts, give her money, spend time with her. Shower her with all her favorite things. The thing is she is very ungrateful. She would take the gifts and tell us dont come over bothering her, she had other things to do. But we keep on doing it. If we gave her a gift she thought was cheap or didn't like she would throw it away and tell us I didnt need that. We keep doing it, we b*** our tongues and dont complain. Now her health is going bad. We are there for her, take her to all her appointments, buy her food, make sure she has what she needs. If we go one day without tending to her beck and call, she totally dogs us out. Start telling ppl we are not taking care of her properly. We have lives and jobs. We get hy there regularly throught the week. She gets lonely now because all of her friends who she used to drink and party with and abandon us for, ate not around now that she cant hang out and drink. But, we still do everything for her and dont complain even though she has never acted like she really cares about us. But, we realize time is short so we suck it up, her verbal insults, and still take care of her and all her needs. The sad thing is, underneath all of the bad that she does and says, we all just want to love her. Its crazy how life works.

    • I have been pondering this #2111925

      Lately. The sad thing is bad mothers usually have good kids who always try to do whats right. And, good morhers wound up with the bad, non-achieving, inconsiderate kids who dont want to fo anything but get a free ride in life. I was just having this conversation with my brother. How my mother is blessed to get everything she wants and cared for by kids she never cared for. And, she's so ornery she doesn't even realize it.

  • Wanda Baker, Louisiana #2111910 » Posted in: My online family

    Why You Mad? I remember praying the wrong prayer. I was praying for certain people to change when I finally realized that I should be praying for God to give me the strength to accept who and how they were.

  • Pat Ga #2111909 » Posted in: My online family

    Why You Mad; Thank you Tyler for the eye opener for me. God Bless

  • Amanda Port Townsend, WA #2111908 » Posted in: My online family

    REGARDING Why you mad? I loved it. You beautifully stated my personal belief system when it comes to our relationships with other humans. This is not always a popular thinking process and least often an easy to grasp concept for some. Thanks for sharing your wisdom.

  • Monica Williams Henderson, Nevada #2111907 » Posted in: My online family

    You called it! The Lord says to turn your worries over to Him. He says when you come into the presence of an unruly soul that you should pray for them, not try to change them. Whatever is in your heart is what you will call into your life. What you ignite, you invite!

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